Sunday, November 4, 2007

Relations

I guess this will be a long post on "Relations"....

Yesterday my brother returned from Delhi to Bangalore and it was about a year since I had met him for the last time. Yes I was very happy to see him after a year..and the speed of the time was..I don't I can't express it..It just passed very fast.... At night when my brother left to my hom etown I just recollected the entire day's event and got inspired to post about one the beautiful creations of God "Relation".

What is relation? is it some kind of bonding or connectivity among people? or does it sort people based on religion or does it pertain to a set people from the same faily? or what is it ?

I am just wondering what it is? All these days my mom and teachers have taught me that people from the same faily are bnded into relations.....

I saw two different kind of relation yesterday one the blood relation which we is suppposed to be the bonding between the same family members and another the non-blood relation Friendship... that I realized during my college days.....

Relation or bonding makes you feel for others...and I find these relations very strange.....

Especially when I was in school I always used to fight with my brother for asinine things...hit him..never used to feel bad also...Even the same from my brother's side..when we were in school he used to order and make use of me very well....We had competition in everything..right from food to playing kits...and all other required accessories....The one used to feel happy when it wins the other...There was no scope for compensation or sacrifice...But the same turns out into a lovely feeling when we grow up.....

When my bro departed from me during his college days...I started missing him very much and whenever he returned home for his vaction I used to sacrifice on all things...for which we botht used to fight during child hood days.... On the other side again the notorious brother turns into a soft responsible brother when he grows up.... He starts thinking about his sis future...he starts getting things which his sis likes when he returns home for vacation...he starts loving his sis more than his mother...I just wonder how this transition takes place....

When I heard the news my brother is coming I just started preparing all the stuff he likes...despite of my tierness.... I was so excited I just could not sleep waiting for his arrival.....

Then my brother reaches home and is ready to taste his favourite "Dosa sambar"(delicious south indian dish) and then criticizes a bit...starts pulling my legs...and it just goes...

And then he unpacks all the dress materials that he has got for me ...I was so so so so so much happy and then he shows me all the T shirts that he got for my cousins...
then he is worried about buying a good dress for our small sis to fulfill her expectations..... I was just shocked to see my interest and enthusiasm in buying a lovely dress for our lil sis....

Now comes another relation the Frindship ..... In this little time that he plans to spend with me he receives 100 calls from his friends just to meet up for few mins and exchange theire wishes...and great bro smartly fixes up the appointments to meet all his friends and our relatives and keep every one happy..... Inbetween I just went on scolding him saying he does not have time for me......

Then somehow my bro manages to get his Friend's vehicle andthen we started roaming....wow...I just went back to my college days when my bro used to take me for long trips in his bike over some weekends.....Then we did shopping, met his friends...and booked the ticket for his deprture to home....and then went to some cousin's hostel..met up few cousins..

We did some shopping for my bro..I got him 2 T shirts...man...Iw as feeling sooooooooooooo happy.....and just shcoked again to realize that we have grown up so much...and it's a different kind of feeling altogether for each of us now.....

If my bro's friend had not lend him the vehicle ..it would have been a difficult time for us... to cover up everything within the limited time...

ah...It was night soon... We returned home...and then my friend returns home and my Responsible bro(which I saw yesterday) thanks her for her help extended to me in our difficult times...and she is stunned looking at my bro telling this...This friend of my mine has seen my bro since our childhood and she was surprised to look at this new face ;-)

Then I served him good dinner and as a responsible sis I packed his bags without his knowledge( but the same would not be possible when we were kids).... and bid him adieu..... then again I was worried if he would reach home safely and comfortably....

That's all...There is some magic in this "Relation" I do not know what ....

Ok I think I just wrote on the "Blood relation" I have more to write on "Fridship " as well but then this post would be too long and might be boring..sO I wind up here...and will unwind my beautiful experiences with Friendship in another post!

I have always felt...You know the value of your pals or sibling or cousins only when they are far away from you.....You always get to taste the essence of relations only by time and distance...

Atleast for me I have felt the above thought to be true...I think it's true at most!!

Akshatha
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